Having the intention to know how to pick up women? If that is your situation, you have to understand that you are actually making the effort to develop a skill where 99% of the male population doesn’t have a clue about, and this is good news for you. The first thing you need to have in mind is that knowing how to approach a women and how to attract women doesn’t come like a mystical enchanting gift set and it is not related to whether you are born with it or not.

In fact, it is just like any other skill where you master through learning. It can be learn through practicing consistently, and discovering what’s working and what’s not. If you are just too lazy to go through the trial and error process, here are three tips which will help you to learn how to pick up women.

First: Go Where the Fish Are

This sounds like a simple advice when it is related to learning how to pick up women, but still most men is trying to approach women in places where the competition is really hot, and that is a huge mistake to make. For instance, bars, night clubs, etc. women that are just trying to hang around with friends in such places get hit on by 55 guys per minute.

It is alright actually. These places might be an awesome training ground if you are looking to get a lot of practice, but you are not really interested in getting a lot of quality results. But, if you start approaching women at less suspicious places, such as parks, coffee house, bookstores, libraries, etc. Definitely, you will find a lot less competition and therefore women don’t have their “pick up radar” on high security mode.

Second: Build Trust First

Being to be able to build trust quickly is one of the biggest secrets on how to pick up women. But how can you perform this with it is so obvious that you are approaching her for solely one reason only?  You have to take it easy and do NOT approach her until you have build trust. For an example, if she is sitting in a bookstore reading a book, pick a chair near her. After a few minutes, tell her that you are going to the bathroom and politely ask her to watch her seat.

This will emits a subtle message that you trust her, and extending trust to people almost always inspires them to reciprocate trust. Subsequently, you will tell her thanks when you return, and she will probably be much more approachable.

TIP: for best results, make a joke out of this and say: “I’m going to run to the bathroom, if anyone touches my lap top, I need you to tackle them.” After this, it ought to be much easier to engage her in a conversation and of course, you move to the last step.

Third: Use the “Gotta Go Close”

Right after the moment you have a bit of conversation going, pretend that you just got a text message from a friend of yours and tell her that “you have to go”. This is one of those “interruptions” that will help you create an opportunity for you to tell her this: “I need to go, but I’d like to have this conversation, what are you doing on…”

And definitely, you ask for a date at this time, as the conversation was interrupted, you will still be leaving her with the sense that you are not needy, you have a life and of course, you and her still have something to talk about.

Practice the strategy that was discuss just now, and remember, knowing how to pick up women is a skill which can be learned through practice. Just after a few times of practice, you’ll be comfortable and you will have other men asking you for advice regarding how to pick up a woman.